Everything Is Changing!

Change is good! This is a great lesson I am glad to have learned. The friends I made in college, are the people I thought I would have with me for the rest of my life,,,, but sadly this isn't true!

In May I decided it was the time I had a change as I knew deep down that I just wasn't happy where I was anymore, so I took upon myself to drop out of college. After being there for a year and a half, I just wasn't my usual happy self, and every day when I was waking up knowing I had to go to college, I was getting more and more depressed. That wasn't how I wanted to spend the rest of my college life so I left. At first, I wasn't sure how this would affect my future, but it's made me more determined to be happy where I am so I am trying harder to get somewhere with my performing arts future!

However, I have been judged by many people with my choice of dropping out as some people believe that my education is more important than my happiness. If there are people in your life who are like this, then it should be in your best interest to get your distance from them! Although I'm not saying your education isn't important because it is. But if you are unhappy then change how you live your life, don't let yourself get to the point where you could possibly hate you passion because the things around you make you miserable. Music and performing have always been my passion and they still are, as they are the things that make me very happy in my life. Honestly, I couldn't see myself doing anything else!

Some things I have learn't over the years is that, don't let everyone else's perspective for you change who you are! Just be you, and if they don't like it then they're not worth your time or effort as they're  only there to bring you down! Something  I talk about a bit it the secret of life: people change people! And every day I'm seeing how more true this is in the world today. It's a shame really people seem to care more about what other people think about us than what we think of ourselves.

Let me just say we're all perfect just the way we are and you should only change if you really want to but do it for you and not everyone else! You're going to make mistakes. It just says your human. And with every mistake you make, you're growing, learning and becoming a better you. If you didn't make mistakes, say things you didn't mean or do things you aren't proud of..... then you wouldn't perfect in in your own unique way. Just like you are right now being you!!

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